The Grandparent explained to the Grandchild that there are two Beings in every Human Being.
One is the Shadow Being the Ego; One is the Light Being, the Soul or Spirit.
The Shadow Being is anger, hatred, prejudice, disrespect, envy, jealousy, arrogance, lies, self pity, resentment, inferiority, false pride, greed, guilt, regret, judgment, superiority.
The Light Being is love, kindness, compassion, respect, gratitude, generosity, truth, integrity, peace, empathy, benevolence, forgiveness, happiness, joy, self love, self respect, self worth.
The Grandchild thought for a minute and asked the Grandparent which being is the strongest.
The Grandparent replied, "the one you choose to feed the most".